Integrity
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Doing the right thing is a poetic notion filled with chivalrous intentions that can oftentimes be negatively judged or completely misunderstood; it can painfully backfire.
Humans fundamentally sense and know right from wrong void of laws, un-written codes of ethics and company policies. Despite our internal moral barometer, it can be such a tough decision to lead with integrity, let alone live with integrity. Should we feel regret or remorse when our integrity has a negative result and we lose and hurt others, or lose popularity? Do we courageously dig deep and stand up for our decision regardless of consequence?
I personally think integrity is a very subjective thing. One can only hope that others understand our decision or at least respect our conviction even when they are different to theirs. Surely it’s okay to disagree and walk away happy. Ultimately, embrace that not everybody will get you. And that’s okay because integrity is not a popularity contest and there is always a currency trade off.
If you feel guilty that you upset people because you are honoring your values and genuinely did what you thought was right, then stay calm and carry on… the judgment storm will pass. Ask Nike and Colin Kaepernick.
Trust your gut, that as a healthy human being with a conscience and empathy, you are making the right decision in the long run. Be aware of the difference between being stubborn and doing the right thing. Your emotional response to the situation will let you know what’s what. When it comes to narcissists, don’t confuse integrity with heartless selfish interest. The intention must be do to the right thing for the right reasons and for the bigger picture.
Thank you for reading,
Vital Germaine
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